A Divine Call For Transformation

By the late 1990s, Rick Salewske’s life had become a struggle against the confines of his own body. At 538 pounds, his car was no longer adaptable to his size. The steering wheel was so close to him that he couldn’t reach the lever to lower the window. To use a drive-through, he had to

By the late 1990s, Rick Salewske’s life had become a struggle against the confines of his own body. At 538 pounds, his car was no longer adaptable to his size. The steering wheel was so close to him that he couldn’t reach the lever to lower the window. To use a drive-through, he had to roll down the window before getting into the car, leaving it open to the elements. Despite these challenges, Rick drove through anyway, showcasing his determination in adversity.

 

During these difficult times, Rick found comfort in his friendship with Glenn and Karen, and their three daughters. Their home was close enough for Rick to walk, and he often joined them for meals and special occasions. Their family dynamic reminded him of the close bonds he missed with his family in Michigan. So, when Glenn and Karen announced their separation and impending divorce, Rick was shocked. He had seen no trouble, perhaps because he was so eager to hold onto this surrogate family that he overlooked any warning signs.

 

After their separation, Karen stayed nearby, and Rick continued to support her, mainly out of love for her daughters, whom he saw as his nieces. However, Glenn grows suspicious and accuses Rick of having an affair with Karen—a completely unfounded accusation. Rick thought of Karen as a sister, not a romantic partner. This baseless accusation shattered their long-standing friendship, leading to Glenn and Karen's divorce in 1998. Karen and the girls moved away, leaving Rick a deeper sense of loss and isolation.

 

Rick’s world had now narrowed to his work and his remaining friend, Gary. His childhood friend Jeff, now in the Air Force and stationed in San Antonio, managed to stay in touch occasionally. Jeff’s concern for Rick’s increasing weight was evident, but he hesitated to confront the issue directly, fearing it might damage their friendship. Despite the distance and Jeff’s busy schedule, he remained a vital source of support for Rick during his darkest moments.

 

In 1999, Rick’s company was sold again to a familiar firm where he had previously interviewed. The new management gave him increased responsibilities, and he became engrossed in preparing for the Y2K computer crisis. This focus helped distract him from his struggles and provided a temporary reprieve from his overwhelming issues.

 

Rick’s dream of moving back to Michigan remained strong despite these changes. Through an internet search, he found a recruiter named Jeff in Kalamazoo who arranged an interview for him in Detroit. The supervisor, impressed with Rick’s qualifications and enthusiasm, offered him the job over the phone. However, the offer came with a deadline, and Rick had to decide quickly.

 

Rick’s fears about moving were overwhelming. He was haunted by past taunts and negative comments about his weight. Memories of being mocked by a teenager and the harsh words of a Dallas coworker weighed heavily on him. He worried about how new colleagues would perceive him and whether he would fit into office furniture. Despite the supervisor’s encouragement, Rick declined the offer. He felt he needed to lose weight before making such a significant move, even though the supervisor had assured him that his weight was not a concern.

 

The situation worsened when Rick’s high school reunion approached. Unable to attend due to his size and other reasons, Rick’s friend Gary went in his place. Gary’s attempts to defend Rick fell short at the reunion as classmates spread gossip about his weight, further damaging Rick’s self-esteem.

Then, a vivid dream, where Rick saw himself dead, lying in a custom-made coffin while his family grieved, left him drenched in sweat and deeply unsettled, delivering a clear message that he needed to make substantial changes in his life. Despite this powerful experience, Rick struggled to take action.

It wasn’t until a missed job opportunity—a nudge from a God that Rick’s life began to change. The opportunity loss pushed Rick to confront his reality and face the deep-rooted issues holding him back. Even though his journey was fraught with challenges like cravings, self-doubt, and setbacks, the supportive presence of a helpful boss and a life-changing fitness program became pivotal in his recovery. This divine intervention allowed Rick to lose an astonishing 300 pounds, reinforcing his faith and teaching him to rely on God's constant support through life's toughest trials.

Cindy Woods skillfully intertwines Rick’s spiritual and physical journeys in "Half the Man, Twice the Faith," demonstrating how faith is a powerful anchor amidst life's storms. The book portrays faith as a belief system and an active force that empowers Rick and anyone to overcome significant difficulties.


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